Training Your Dog to Be a Ring Bearer, Step by Step

Your dog doesn't need to be perfectly trained to be a ring bearer — but a little preparation goes a long way toward a calm, smooth walk down the aisle. Here's a simple, step-by-step approach to get them ready.

Step 1: Start early

Begin practicing a few weeks (or more) before the wedding. Short, positive sessions build confidence without pressure.

Step 2: Get them used to the outfit

Let your dog wear their bow tie or ring-holder collar around the house so it feels completely normal by the big day. A comfortable, well-fitted collar like our adjustable ring bearer bow ties helps a lot here.

Step 3: Practice the walk

Rehearse walking (or being called) a short distance to a familiar person holding treats. Keep it fun and reward generously.

Step 4: Recruit a handler

Choose someone your dog trusts to guide them down the aisle and take them afterward. This person is key to a stress-free moment.

Step 5: Practice with distractions

Gradually add mild distractions — other people, music, new spaces — so the ceremony setting feels manageable.

Step 6: Plan for comfort on the day

Exercise your dog beforehand, bring water and treats, and give them breaks. A tired, happy dog is a well-behaved dog.

Dress the whole ring bearer team

If a child is sharing ring-bearer duty, match them to the dog with a handmade kids' bow tie from the Little Gentleman collection at Handmade Bow Tie.

The takeaway

With a few weeks of gentle practice, the right outfit, and a trusted handler, your dog can make a confident ring bearer. Keep it positive, keep it short, and set them up to succeed.