How to Include Your Dog in Your Wedding When They Can't Be There

Sometimes the venue says no, the weather won't cooperate, or the day is just too much for your pup. The good news: your dog can still be part of your wedding in meaningful, memorable ways — even from the couch at home. Here's how.

Put them on your signage and stationery

Feature your dog on your welcome sign, seating chart, cocktail napkins, or a custom "our dog couldn't make it, but sends love" sign. It's a sweet touch guests always smile at.

Wear a piece of them

Carry a charm with your dog's photo on your bouquet, pin a small token to a lapel, or wear a bracelet with their name. A quiet, personal way to keep them close.

Bring them in through photos

Do an engagement or pre-wedding photoshoot with your dog so they're all over your wedding album and décor. Frame those shots on the gift table or in a slideshow. Our photoshoot styling guide helps you nail the look.

Set up a live video moment

Have your dog's sitter join a quick video call during the reception, or record a "first look" with your dog at home in the morning before the ceremony.

Serve a nod to your pup

Name a signature cocktail after your dog, add them to the cake topper, or work a paw-print detail into the design. Little touches add up.

Celebrate with them after

Save a special "just married" moment for your dog at home — a matching bandana or bow tie, a pup-safe treat, and plenty of photos. It becomes one of the sweetest parts of the day. For more on weaving your dog into the whole story, see how your dog can be part of your love story.

And if they can come after all…

If the venue comes around, get the logistics right with our guides on venue rules and how to ask and who watches the dog on the day.

However your dog celebrates, we have a handmade bow tie or floral collar to make the moment picture-perfect.